With the upcoming Christmas holidays fast approaching (or not coming fast enough), many people find themselves in a new situation where they have recently separated, with the unresolved issue of what is happening with care of the children and how to raise this with the other parent.

Christmas is a time to spend with your closest family and friends to celebrate and be grateful for with the ones that you love. Usually a time of togetherness for families, it can be a first time you find yourself in a situation where years of tradition are uprooted.

Here are some ways to assist you in navigating the Christmas holiday period as a newly single parent.

  1. Plan Ahead

Last minute stress of raising issues in relation to the care of children never helps anyone, simply increasing the deadlines and pressures of an already difficult time of a new single parent trying to juggle employment commitments, care (or lack thereof) the child/ren and financial constraints.

Begin the conversation with the other parent if you do not already have a parenting arrangement or court orders in place. Should you be unable to agree, you can engage in alternate dispute resolution in order to resolve any outstanding issues with the assistance of either a mediator and/or Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner (which is a step required to be undertaken as a pre-action procedure in order to make a genuine attempt at resolving the matter prior to initiating proceedings in the Family Court/Federal Circuit Court). You are also able to undergo Family Dispute Resolution with legal assistance.

In the event that no arrangement be reached at FDR or between the legal representatives, the option of filing an Application with the Court is the last resort. However, there is a deadline for parenting applications to be considered prior to the Christmas Holiday period, which is usually the second Friday in November, unless of course it is considered urgent.

It is always handy to have any agreement reached in writing so you are both on the same page (pun intended) and there is no miscommunication or understanding.

 

  1. Work Together

You and your former spouse/partner are the best ones who know your individual family circumstances and what is important to you, not judges, lawyers or other individuals who have gone through the process and seek to provide you with advice and tell you what you should do.

The best way to assist your children to go through the separation period, which they themselves are affected, is for them to see that you respect their relationship with the other parent, and to see that their parents are trying to work together for the best outcome.

 

  1. Your children come first

This is not a time a time to think from a win/lose perspective, thinking that if you do not get what you ask for, that you are ‘losing’.

The Court’s paramount consideration is what is in the best interest of the children. Think about ways to ensure that the children are comfortable and happy with the arrangements that are in place. Never ‘guilt-trip’ your child/ren into feeling bad about spending time with the other party during the holidays.

Whilst it is important for children to know that you love them tremendously with all you heart and soul and will never let anything bad happen to them, do not let them know that you are hurting because they are not there with you and make use of the time that you do have them.

Also keep in mind that the current situation (if particularly bad), will not always be the case and children remember and appreciate the time and care that you put into them during times like this when they are older.

 

  1. Things to consider when planning ahead

Specifically discuss with the other parent what the plans are to avoid any misunderstanding, including the following:-

  1. The specific times that the children will be spending with each parent, taking into consideration any family events and also the age of the children and whether it is age appropriate for the child to be away from their primary attachment figure for any extensive period of time.
  2. The distance between changeover points and where the changeover is to occur. It is important to keep in mind an age appropriate location and think about the time taken to deliver the child/ren from one location to the other. The changeover location should be at a neutral public location in order to avoid the risk of conflict if this is an issue (particularly if other family members are present and there is has been ongoing animosity). Planning ahead will also reduce the anxiety associate with last minute planning, and deal with any issues such as whether a particular location will be open during the Christmas holiday period (due to public holidays for example.)
  3. Gift giving – discuss gifts with the other party so that there isn’t a cross-over of the same presents, for example, a gaming console. Work together so that gifts supplement each other in these circumstances.

 

  1. Be realistic

There are going to be occasional hiccups that arise with a new situation. Be realistic in your expectations and try facilitating or consider alternative arrangements with the other parent that work best in your circumstances, keeping the child/ren in mind.

There is no one arrangement that is suitable for all families when considering Christmas Day (or the Christmas Holiday period), so make sure to think of an arrangement that will work for both parents and in particular, the children.

The aforementioned is in circumstances where you and the other parent are on fairly amicable terms. Should there be an imminent threat of abuse, history of family violence and threats made, leave immediately or if you are unable to, contact the Police for urgent assistance.

It is also important to keep in mind who has possession of the child/ren’s passports (is this is applicable), particularly if your former partner/spouse is a citizen of another country. If there are any indications that the other parent may leave the country without having provided you with notice of the holiday, together with the details such as flight itinerary, where the children will be staying as well as contact details, contact our expert family lawyers to understand what your rights are in this situation.

 

This article is general tips and advice only and should not be taken as legal advice. For legal advice or to find out further information, contact our family law solicitors at (02) 8917 8700 for a no obligation free consultation.  

“Should I Stay or Should I Go”, coincidentally a song played by a band called The Clash, is a question many parties ask when they separate, and both often think they are entitled to remain living in the home whilst the other finds alternate accommodation.

Often one party decides to leave the matrimonial home when an altercation occurs, and the Police are involved. Whilst the Police are not able to forcibly remove a party when the house is held in joint names (unless of course there are already family violence Orders in place), they do highly recommend that one party leaves in order to ensure that no future incidents occur. This is simply due to the fact that there is often volatile atmosphere created following a new separation, and the Police are the first point of call.

Should the issue remain and there is no agreement as to who is to remain in the home (and usually incur the expenses associated with living in the property such as mortgage repayments), the Court may be asked to decide by way of an Application to the Court.

The Court has the power under Section 114 to:-

  1. grant an injunction restraining a party from entering or remaining at the matrimonial home (or the premises in which the other party resides, considering that many people are either renting or perhaps in this day and age, due to the expense of owning a home or simply for convenience, continue to live with their parents); or
  2. grant an injunction relation to the use or occupancy of the matrimonial home (otherwise known as ‘exclusive occupancy of the matrimonial home’).

When deciding whether to grant a party exclusive use or occupancy of the matrimonial home, the Court may make such an order “as it considers proper” with respect to the matter to which the proceedings relate.

The Court will look at the following factors when deciding to give a spouse exclusive use or occupation of the home:-

The above is by no means a restrictive list and are guidelines only.

An Application for sole occupancy of the home is made on an interim basis (that is, during Court proceedings) and the onus of proving entitlement to the home is on the applicant which is done via an Affidavit. The Court will look at the evidence the Applicant seeks to rely upon when exercising its discretion.

If you think an order for sole occupancy may be appropriate for you (or a friend) in your circumstances, contact our family law experts at Freedman & Gopalan Solicitors by calling 02 8917 8700.

What happens if a person dies without a Will?

When a person passes away without a Will, that person’s assets are distributed according to the laws of the state and not according to their wishes. Kindly note that each state has different laws, but it would create a hassle for the surviving members of the family to apply for a Letter of Administration as there is no Will. There would be immense hassle that the surviving members will have to incur in order to establish their relationship, interest in the Estate and what proportion of the Estate should in fact be distributed to them. This would be left to the decision of the Court, and your Estate will not be distributed according to your wishes. Hence, we would strongly recommend that everyone has a Will prepared so that their hard-earned money can in fact be distributed to their loved ones in the manner in which they wish for their Estate to be distributed.

 

What is a Probate?

If you have a Will, when you pass away, your Executor will proceed to register your Will with the Supreme Court (depending on the amount of assets of your Estate that is being considered), and the Executor will proceed to lodge with the Supreme Court in their state, requesting a Probate to be granted. Once the Probate is obtained, the Executor can proceed to have the Estate distributed according to your wishes.

 

What is a Codicil?

A Codicil is in essence an Addendum added to your last Will without your entire Will having to be redrafted in a situation where you only want an additional wish, requirement or instruction to be added on.

 

What is a Power of Attorney?

A Power of Attorney is a legally enforceable document in which you can authorise another person (persons) to act on your behalf in an event that you are unable to do so. This can be generic or specifically relating to one particular act. For example, you can authorise an Attorney to act on your behalf for a Conveyancing matter if you are travelling overseas.

 

If you wish to discuss about a Will, Letters of Administration, Probate or a Power of Attorney, please do not hesitate to contact our offices to discuss the same on 8917 8700.

 

Whilst COVID-19 has halted the entire aviation industry for the time being, it may be worthwhile to now sort out any issues relating to your child’s Passport, so you’ll be ready to travel again when borders open!

It is important to consider your rights, obligations and steps to be undertaking as a parent obtaining a Passport for your child post-separation.

The Australian Passports Act 2005

The Australian Passports Act 2005 (‘the Act’) outlines the conditions upon which a child can be issued with a Passport, namely the consent of each person who has parental responsibility of the child must be obtained. Section 11(5) of the Act states: -

A person has parental responsibility for a child if, and only if:

  1. the person:
  2. is the child's parent (including a person who is presumed to be the child's parent because of a presumption; and
  3. has not ceased to have parental responsibility for the child because of an order made under the Family Law Act 1975 ; or
  4. the person:
  5. is the child's parent (including a person who is presumed to be the child's parent because of a presumption; and
  6. has not ceased to have parental responsibility for the child because of an order made under that Act; or
  7. under a parenting order:
  8. the child is to live with the person; or
  9. the person has parental responsibility for the child; or
  10. the person has guardianship or custody of, or has parental responsibility for, the child under a law of the Commonwealth, a State or a Territory.

Your Consent

If you have concerns that the other parent may apply for a Passport without your consent, there a number of steps that you could take.

  1. You can place your child on the Airport Watchlist. Further details in relation to this can be found here.
  2. You could seek formal Court Orders to prevent your child from being issued with a Passport, how your child’s Passport will be handled (e.g. kept in safe custody at a solicitors office) or even completely preventing your child from travelling overseas.

The Other Party’s Consent

If the other parent with parental responsibility of your child does not consent to having a Passport issued, you may obtain a formal Court Order which dispenses the requirement of their consent for the Passport.

However, there are limited circumstances, such as: -

  1. A Family Violence Order has been made against the other party;
  2. There has been no contact with the other party for a substantial amount of time;
  3. There is an urgent need to travel with your child due to a family crisis;
  4. The other party is missing, presumed dead or medically incapable of giving consent;
  5. There is a Court Order giving parental responsibility to another person (other than the non-consenting other party); or,
  6. The child’s welfare would be adversely affected should international travel not be permitted.

If you would like to discuss any of the above issues, please do not hesitate to contact our team at Freedman & Gopalan Solicitors on 02 8917 8700, and we’ll be happy to assist you in any manner.

Do you have a Child Inclusive Conference with a Family Consultant ordered by the Court?

The here are a few key points that might assist you;

  1. A Child Inclusive Conference is a meeting with a family consultant and includes the parents and the children involved in the matter. The parties' Legal Representatives are not included. The conference is intended to give the Court an understanding of the family situation, and particularly of the child/ren’s experience.
  2. If the court has ordered for you to attend the Conference, you must attend. If you do not attend, then apart from unnecessary delay in your proceedings, you could also be liable for Costs.
  3. Family consultants are qualified social workers or psychologists, with skill and experience in working with children and families. The are court appointed and are considered as Court experts in relation to child/ren matters.
  4. You do not have to pay for any costs for the Conference with the Family consultant.
  5. Any information provided to the Family consultant is not confidential. The Family consultant will report to the Court the information gathered.
  6. Before your Conference, it is most beneficial for you to read through your Affidavit material filed in the proceedings.
  7. Keep in mind that the ultimate reason that you are having the Conference is to make a decision about your children.
  8. Prior to the Conference, two major aspects that you need to have clarity in your mind is,
    i. What are the arrangements you want for your child/ren ; and
    ii. Why the arrangements you want are best for your child/ren.
  9. Under no circumstances, should you coach the child/ren for the Conference. Your child/ren should be given an opportunity to express their feelings and concerns during the conference. If there is an Independent Children’s Lawyer appointed in your matter, they may want to speak to the child/ren before the Conference.

In the event, you are self-represented and you have a Conciliation Conference ordered by the Court, we would highly recommend that you obtain independent legal advice, prior to the Conference. Our team at Freedman & Gopalan Solicitors is here to assist and guide you through these tough times.

Please do not hesitate to contact us on 02 8917 8700 to speak with our lawyers, or feel free to leave an enquiry via email, and we will be in touch as soon as possible.

Once final parenting orders are made, either by way of consent between the parents or a determination made by the Court following a final hearing, these are required to be complied with until the child/ren attain the age of 18 years, when the child/ren will then be legally recognised as adults.

Final parenting orders are difficult to alter, unless otherwise agreed between the parents, as in the Court’s view, subjecting a child or children to ongoing litigation is not in their best interest. The Court’s paramount concern is always what is in the best interest of the children.

During the negotiation phase of entering into a parenting arrangement with the other parent, or throughout Court proceedings (which is based on the situation and the known circumstances of the parents and chil/dren at the time), it is often difficult for parties to foresee the long-term future and effect of any parenting orders made, particularly with infant or young children.

However, there are circumstances which the Court recognises due to changing family arrangements or changes over time that occur as the child/ren grow up that gives rise to seeking a variation to parenting orders.

If parties are unable to agree to altering the parenting orders between themselves by consent (and the parties have attempted Family Dispute Resolution), then an application to the Court is required.

The first threshold a party seeking to alter parenting orders must satisfy is that there is a significant change in circumstances, which is considered by the Court on a case-by-case basis.

What is considered a significant change in circumstances?

A significant change in circumstances may include any of the following:-

  1. Serious health issues;
  2. Criminal charges;
  3. Relocation;
  4. Successful rehabilitation from former mental health problems; and
  5. Re-marriage or re-partnering.

If you believe the circumstances of your life has changed enough to justify the variation of existing parenting order or want more information about changing parenting orders, contact our specialist family law solicitors at 02 8917 8700 to obtain practical solutions.

 

 

This week the Family Court of Australia and the Federal Circuit Court have appointed seven new registrars, in line with a new initiative to simplify the family law property dispute process.

In honour of these appointments, here are 7 things to know about the Family Court of Australia and how it works:

  1. The Family Court is a superior court of record established under Chapter 3 of the Commonwealth Constitution. It has limited jurisdiction, meaning that it only has jurisdiction over family law matters, for example, those involving matrimonial property, parenting disputes and other family law-related issues.
  2. The Family Court was only established by Parliament in 1975! This was the same year that no-fault divorce was introduced in Australia, which means that the court does not consider which partner was at fault for the marriage breakdown, and moral considerations such as adultery do not factor into a decision about property and children.
  3. The Family Court maintains registries in all the Australian states and territories except Western Australia, which has its own ‘Family Court of Western Australia’.
  4. In NSW, the Family Court publishes daily court lists in Albury, Coffs Harbour, Dubbo, Lismore, Newcastle, Parramatta, Sydney and Wollongong.
  5. Registrars provide support to the judges as need and undertake important Alternative Dispute Resolution work.
  6. Where it is appropriate and possible, the Family Court highly encourages parties to reach agreements without a court hearing to adjudicate. In fact, in most cases, the legal representatives are able to negotiate a resolution of the matter by agreement, which can then be formalised by way of Consent Orders.
  7. These 7 new registrars will be integral in delivering important initiatives, such as the Lighthouse Project (an initiative in the way in which the courts screen for risk, and focus on public health and improved outcomes for families involved in the family law system), and a new initiative to streamline the property dispute process for cases where the value of the property pool is under $500,000.

If you have any questions about proceedings occurring in the Family Court of Australia, please do not hesitate to get in contact on 02 8917 8700 or by our online enquiry form.

 

Divorce is the formal legal ending of a marriage. It is totally separate and distinct from property arrangements following the breakdown of a marriage.

People usually get confused, thinking that divorce is linked to property settlement (including spousal maintenance), parenting orders and child support payments. This is not the case. Consider divorce to be merely the licence to re-marry.

To be able to get divorced you need to prove that your marriage has irrevocably broken down. This is confirmed when the parties have separated officially for 12 months or more, and can confirm that there is no likelihood of the relationship resuming.

Parties can be separated under the same roof, but can not be in a physical relationship once they have separated.

To apply for a divorce, as outlined above, you must be separated for at least 12 months and you and your spouse must be:

  1. Australian citizens, OR
  2. Live in Australia and regard Australia as your permanent home, OR
  3. Ordinarily live in Australia and have done so for at least 12 months before the divorce application.

Of course if you have been married overseas, you can apply for a divorce in Australia as long as you meet the above criteria.

Kindly note however, if you have been married for less than 2 years, you must attend counselling with a family counsellor and file a counselling certificate giving you the exemption or get the permission from the court to apply for a divorce without the appropriate certificate being obtained (this would be in a scenario where there has been a significant case of domestic violence).

A divorce application can be filed for by one party or jointly.

 

How to apply:

You can be legally represented or proceed to self-represent if you wish to apply for a divorce. You need to apply to the Federal Circuit Court, (if located in Western Australia, you will need to apply through the Family Court of WA). You can apply together via a joint application or solely (a sole application). Depending on whether you have children under the age of 18, you will be asked to appear in court for the Final Hearing. There is a filing fee for the divorce application and it is in the sum of $930.00.

Kindly note that after the Final Hearing, if the court is satisfied that all criteria is met, a divorce decree will be granted. However you will not be issued with the same until one month and one day after the divorce hearing.

There is no time period in which a divorce must be applied for. However, you should take special note of the fact that as soon as a divorce decree is obtained, you need to obtain a resolution in relation to property settlement within 12 months. If an amicable resolution cannot be reached, you must apply to the court for property orders, as a time limit for the same expires 12 months after the date of divorce.

If you need any assistance or advice, please do not hesitate to contact Freedman & Gopalan Solicitors via our online enquiry service or by calling 02 8917 8700.

 

You’re now separating with your partner and trying to understand your position, whether it be in relation to your finances or issues with parenting. However, it is important to not rely upon many unqualified sources for information, whether it be from social media, a friend of a friend who has gone through a separation or advice from your family itself. Each case is different and should be dealt with in accordance to its own facts. Freedman & Gopalan Solicitors specialises in Family Law, and we can provide you with expert advice.

Here are 5 common family law myths which you may have heard of: -

 

  1. Everything will be split 50/50.

This is one of the most common myths in relation to property settlement. In Australia, there is no rule provided for equal division nor is there a clear-cut mathematical formula followed. According to the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth), the Court considers a number of factors such as: -

  1. The financial contributions of each person;
  2. The non-financial contributions of each party;
  3. Any contributions made to the welfare of the family by each party; and
  4. The future needs of each person.

Remember, each case is unique and requires adjustments made in order to ensure there is a ‘just and equitable’ result. This does not necessarily mean equal.

 

  1. My partner cheated on me and therefore will be obligated to pay for.

This is the second misconception. Australia is a ‘no fault’ jurisdiction which applies to the partner who had an affair. This means that any moral issues such as infidelity does not impact the overall property settlement or determines who the children of the relationship are to live with. Of course, there are exemptions if there are issues such as domestic violence.

 

  1. We have to be divorced in order to separate our assets.

This is not necessary. Parties are able to negotiate and formalise any issues relating to their property at any stage, whether it be after they separate and prior to being divorced. However, it is important to note that should a Certificate of Divorce already be granted by the Court, parties have 12 months after that date in order to formalise the property settlement.

 

  1. We don’t need Court Orders. Everything has been amicable.

There are many benefits of obtaining Consent Orders from the Family Court in order to formalise an agreement in relation to the division of the property. This protects your interest in the future and provides confidence that the matter is final. It is also an enforceable agreement by the Court should your ex-partner does not comply with the initial informal agreement.

The benefits of the digital age is that we have become accustomed to do-it-yourself guidelines and other online resources to help solve problems. However, not seeking legal advice can in fact be detrimental to your matter and result in future unnecessary legal costs. Lawyers understand the complexity of the law, can negotiate a better outcome on your behalf and take the burden of handling the matter whilst you are experiencing the emotional stress that can come with separation.

Please do not hesitate to reach out to Freedman & Gopalan Solicitors on 02 8917 8700 or email us at reception@freedmangopalan.com.au if you wish to discuss any issues.

 

 

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