TW: domestic abuse
Domestic violence is a complex and silent crime that is significantly under-reported, and in most cases, survivors find it difficult in accessing avenues of help.
Domestic violence involves an abuse of power, and is predominantly targeted towards women – making it a gendered crime. It extends beyond physical violence, and manifests itself in various forms including financial abuse, psychological abuse, sexual abuse and isolation.
An avenue that is accessible to many survivors is their healthcare provider or general practitioner. Especially if your partner has isolated you from friends and family, a healthcare provider might be one’s only safe form of communication. When speaking to your general practitioner, advise them of your domestic violence situation, and if your partner refuses to leave you alone in the room with the general practitioner, attempt to call (during a safe time) the general practitioner beforehand to let them know that you wish to speak to them alone.
After discussing your situation with the general practitioner, they will be in a position to assist you in making a safety plan, provide you with details of local resources, and even document the abuse you are going through, whether that be physical or mental. You may need to check beforehand the state laws regarding whether general practitioners are required to report any incidents to the police, especially if you wish for no report to be made.
F&G understands how difficult it is for survivors of domestic violence to finally break free from the power their partner dominates over them and speak out about their situation. It is important to always have a thorough self-care process, such as doing something you enjoy, journaling, or even practicing breathing techniques.
There are numerous assistance helplines available to you:-
- NSW Domestic Violence Line - 1800 656 463
- 1800 RESPECT- 1800 73 77 32
- Link2home Homelessness - 1800 152 152
- Child Protection Helpline - 13 21 11
If you or someone you know wish to discuss this issue further, then please do not hesitate to contact us on 02 8999 9809.